Ask Renée: Can’t Ejaculate, Lost My Girl

Dear UP,
All of the thrill and none of the spill? Some women might call that a win, UP. Don’t let a silly rejection kill your “super erection.”
Love and sex are complicated. We all have our quirks. But good lovin’ is a mutual exchange of pleasure and a sack sesh shouldn’t make you feel inadequate.

Put simply: your missing jism could be her rationalism.

Your relationship didn’t end because you were unable to ejaculate. Consciously or not, your lack of load may have been a justifying excuse for her own feelings of insecurity and inadequacy. Put simply: your missing jism could be her rationalism. That said, if you miss the grand finale fiesta, talk to your doc, because there may be a treatment adjustment to help unkink the hose. Erectile regimens often need tweaking so no shame in getting it right. But if it’s not a thing for you, UP, it shouldn’t be for anyone else.

Go over the disclosure. It’s these sorts of shares that deepen intimacy and grow trust.

So no wallowing; it’s time for Mission Move On. Suss out an empathetic partner worthy of your noble knob. Green light qualities include: warmth, openness and understanding. You know, the usual feel-good stuff that take the pressure off and makes you feel desired, attractive and free. And if you’re up for a vulnerability challenge, a little, um, head’s up will go a long way. Go over the disclosure. It’s these sorts of shares that deepen intimacy and grow trust. And have a little faith; what once was a deal-breaker may just broker the deal.
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